Your Most Important Relationship: The One With Your Self

With roughly 50% of marriages ending in divorce, it’s easy to lose faith in long-term relationships altogether and just go from one to another when our partner no longer gives us what we want.  However, there’s a reason we feel dissatisfied with others, and that is rooted in how we feel about our self.

We need to understand the subconscious drivers behind the behaviors that show up in our relationships.  In one sense, having a series of failed relationships can be helpful.  This is because it will reveal behavior patterns that accompany us from one relationship to the next.

This demonstrates that our relationship challenges are not about our partners, but always about us and, more accurately, our subconscious thought patterns.  What we experience in our relationships is entirely a result of what we have allowed into our subconscious mind.

The subconscious is like a filing cabinet filled with memory files.  Each of these is energy and is acted upon by the Law of Attraction to bring matching experiences to our attention.

The most influential memories are those with the most intense negative energy, as these are the ones the subconscious most strongly projects into our reality.  These are the memories accompanied by the most intense emotions, usually from events in the first 7-9 years of our life.

This is because at this age our emotions are on the surface.  We are absorbing what we are told and experiencing into our subconscious mind like a sponge.  This is also the period of our life when we are focused on developing our self-image.

So what we attract into our life is directly correlated with how we have felt about our self, which includes how we felt about our self at all moments in time throughout our life.

Our relationships are really about our having the opportunity to see the results of this subconscious programming in the behavior of our partner.  So, rather than blaming our partners for what we don’t like in them, we will avoid repeating our relationship mistakes when we start taking responsibility for attracting that behavior.

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